Saw Wright open up for Nick Cave back in summer 2002 at Roseland Ballroom in NYC with my mother. At one point she literally leaned backward onto the floor continuing to play her guitar. Why she has never been bigger, I didn't know. I think you have to want and chase stardom. Contort yourself, bend to the floor for accolades. Not be the type to do so only for the love of music and performance. You have to desire to fuck the star even if you never do. And a woman who says "no" will likely stay where they are.